Your silence obviously indicates you don't want to have dinner with me but at least respect me enough to say so.  I get that you're a professed 'bad friend' and you really don't give a fuck but I also know that you do enjoy spending time with me and on occassion even look forward to it so stop treating me like shit - we both know you're smart enough to be fully aware that you are acting like an ass and for reasons that I don't understand... you say you're not ignoring me when I ask you about it so I have no clue at all what's going on.. if you just want me to leave you alone say so, it's not really that complicated.  It's all on you...